Over the past few weeks, I have been chatting with several guys who have just been feeling stuck in one area of their life or another.
👎 They’ve been working at the same job, in the same position for years and don’t feel like they’re moving forward. They feel unchallenged and unfulfilled.
👎 They’re in a relationship where no matter what they do they feel like they’re just going through the motions. And it’s been like that for a long time.
👎 Others don’t even know where they’re stuck, they just have a constant feeling of frustration and anxiety over where they are in life at the moment.
In any case, it’s a pretty 𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘺 place to be.
I’ve been there.
About 2 years ago, I had reached a point in my life where I knew there was something better for me out there. I just had no idea what it was or how to get there. 🤦🏼
😤 I was frustrated all the time.
I’d try something new and quickly lose interest.
I’d date around and get bored.
In short, I was stuck and it was driving me crazy. 😫
I had been feeling like that for about 3 years and knew I couldn’t spend another year waiting in limbo while life just passed me by.
I was approaching 40 and time was running out.
I had to do something.
🤔 I wanted to understand why I was feeling stuck and what I could do about it.
So, I hired a coach and together we got down to the root issues of what was going on.
𝘽𝙚𝙨𝙩 𝘿𝙚𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙄 𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧 𝙈𝙖𝙙𝙚.
Turns out, I was able to boil the frustration of feeling stuck down into 5 Fears.
As I started working with guys, it seemed these same 5 fears kept popping up in their lives.
So, I appropriately named them 𝙏𝙝𝙚 5 𝘿𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙡𝙮 𝙁𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙨.
Okay, now that I had an understanding of what was holding me back, now I needed to figure out what to do about it in order to move towards being the man I wanted to become.
💪🏻 Confident. Generous. Ambitious. Adventurous. Successful. The list goes on…
It took some time, but I soon started developing habits and practices that launched me completely out of that state of feeling stuck.
It was the most incredible feeling in the world. 🕺
Everything in my life started getting better and I was feeling Freaking Awesome Every Day!
𝑇ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑤𝑎𝑠 2 𝑦𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑠 𝑎𝑔𝑜! 𝐴𝑛𝑑 𝑖𝑡’𝑠 𝑠𝑡𝑖𝑙𝑙 𝑔𝑜𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑆𝑡𝑟𝑜𝑛𝑔!
So, I had to share it with some of the guys I was working with.
And these strategies started working in their lives too.
✅ They began loving their work again or in some cases quit their job all together and started doing something totally different.
✅ Their relationships at work and at home improved dramatically.
✅ Their finances increased because of the new sense of confidence they received.
And what a cool feeling to be able to be a part of that transformation.
So, the 𝗘𝗔𝗔 𝗙𝗼𝗿𝗺𝘂𝗹𝗮 was born.
Over the next 6 weeks, we’re going to dive into the 𝙏𝙝𝙚 5 𝘿𝙚𝙖𝙙𝙡𝙮 𝙁𝙚𝙖𝙧𝙨 and how to move through them so you can experience greater confidence & happiness in EVERY aspect of your life.
Hold On, cause this is going to be Freaking Awesome!
Joshua D. Abel