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๐˜ผ๐™ก๐™ก ๐™Š๐™—๐™จ๐™ฉ๐™ง๐™ช๐™˜๐™ฉ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ๐™จ Stem from ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ง

Over the past few weeks, I have been chatting with several guys who have just been feeling stuck in one area of their life or another. 

๐Ÿ‘Ž Theyโ€™ve been working at the same job, in the same position for years and donโ€™t feel like theyโ€™re moving forward.  They feel unchallenged and unfulfilled.

๐Ÿ‘Ž Theyโ€™re in a relationship where no matter what they do they feel like theyโ€™re just going through the motions.  And itโ€™s been like that for a long time.

๐Ÿ‘Ž Others donโ€™t even know where theyโ€™re stuck, they just have a constant feeling of frustration and anxiety over where they are in life at the moment.

In any case, itโ€™s a pretty ๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ต๐˜บ place to be.

Iโ€™ve been there.  

About 2 years ago, I had reached a point in my life where I knew there was something better for me out there.  I just had no idea what it was or how to get there. ๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿผ

๐Ÿ˜ค I was frustrated all the time.

Iโ€™d try something new and quickly lose interest.

Iโ€™d date around and get bored.

In short, I was stuck and it was driving me crazy. ๐Ÿ˜ซ

I had been feeling like that for about 3 years and knew I couldnโ€™t spend another year waiting in limbo while life just passed me by.

I was approaching 40 and time was running out.

I had to do something.

๐Ÿค” I wanted to understand why I was feeling stuck and what I could do about it.

So, I hired a coach and together we got down to the root issues of what was going on.

๐˜ฝ๐™š๐™จ๐™ฉ ๐˜ฟ๐™š๐™˜๐™ž๐™จ๐™ž๐™ค๐™ฃ ๐™„ ๐™€๐™ซ๐™š๐™ง ๐™ˆ๐™–๐™™๐™š.

Turns out, I was able to boil the frustration of feeling stuck down into 5 Fears.

As I started working with guys, it seemed these same 5 fears kept popping up in their lives.  

overcoming fear

So, I appropriately named them ๐™๐™๐™š 5 ๐˜ฟ๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™จ.

Okay, now that I had an understanding of what was holding me back, now I needed to figure out what to do about it in order to move towards being the man I wanted to become.

๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿป Confident. Generous. Ambitious. Adventurous. Successful.  The list goes on…

It took some time, but I soon started developing habits and practices that launched me completely out of that state of feeling stuck.

It was the most incredible feeling in the world. ๐Ÿ•บ

Everything in my life started getting better and I was feeling Freaking Awesome Every Day!

๐‘‡โ„Ž๐‘Ž๐‘ก ๐‘ค๐‘Ž๐‘  2 ๐‘ฆ๐‘’๐‘Ž๐‘Ÿ๐‘  ๐‘Ž๐‘”๐‘œ!  ๐ด๐‘›๐‘‘ ๐‘–๐‘กโ€™๐‘  ๐‘ ๐‘ก๐‘–๐‘™๐‘™ ๐‘”๐‘œ๐‘–๐‘›๐‘” ๐‘†๐‘ก๐‘Ÿ๐‘œ๐‘›๐‘”!

So, I had to share it with some of the guys I was working with.  

And these strategies started working in their lives too.

โœ… They began loving their work again or in some cases quit their job all together and started doing something totally different.

โœ… Their relationships at work and at home improved dramatically.

โœ… Their finances increased because of the new sense of confidence they received.

And what a cool feeling to be able to be a part of that transformation.

So, the ๐—˜๐—”๐—” ๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—บ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฎ was born.

Over the next 6 weeks, weโ€™re going to dive into the ๐™๐™๐™š 5 ๐˜ฟ๐™š๐™–๐™™๐™ก๐™ฎ ๐™๐™š๐™–๐™ง๐™จ and how to move through them so you can experience greater confidence & happiness in EVERY aspect of your life.

Hold On, cause this is going to be Freaking Awesome!

Joshua D. Abel

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